Posts Tagged ‘therapy’
Sex Therapy: What it is, What it isn’t, and What to know before starting || By TJ Dubovich, MA, MFTC
What Sex Therapy Is Sex therapy is a specialized form of talk therapy that focuses on sexual health, intimacy, and relationship dynamics. It’s grounded in psychology, communication, and evidence-based techniques—not performance or physical demonstrations (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists – AASECT), A sex therapist helps individuals and couples explore concerns such as:…
Read MoreWhere Do We Go From Here?: Moving Through Grief to Cultivate our Aliveness || By Taylor Arroganté-Reyes, LPCC
When I sat down to write this, I knew I wanted to talk about the psychological work that’s swirling around me as a therapist. More specifically, the work around me as a therapist in 2026 in the United States who works with folks at an intersection of many forms of marginalization. My fingers hovered over…
Read MoreThe Worst Has Happened, Now What? || By JT Nolan, LPC
The Stages of Change Model of Grief There’s a scene in “The Two Towers” (the second “Lord of the Rings” movie) where King Théoden receives the news that his son is dead. After Gandalf reassures him that his death was not his fault, Théoden replies, “No parent should have to bury their child.” I remember…
Read MoreWhat Your Dreams Are Trying to Tell You—and How Therapy Can Help || By Deanna Edwards, LPCC
Have you ever woken up from a dream that stayed with you all day? Dreams are more than random images—they’re windows into our subconscious, reflecting our emotions, fears, and desires in ways our waking mind often misses. Take this dream, for example: The hotel keeps rearranging itself. Hallways stretch and fold, doors breathe softly, lights…
Read MoreWhy You’re Not Broken: Reframing Symptoms as Protective Parts || By Laura Hogzett MA, LPCC, EMDR, NCC, Rev
Understanding Anxiety, Depression, and Addiction through Internal Family Systems I talk about Internal Family Systems (IFS) a lot because it works. It is more than a therapy model; it is a compassionate lens for understanding your inner world. Once you start to see your emotions, behaviors, and thoughts as different parts of you, each trying…
Read MoreThe Sacred Practice of Slowing Down: What Motherhood & Art Taught Me About Spirit || By Leanne Morton, MA, LPC, ATR
I still remember the shock of becoming a first-time mom in the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, how lonely it felt to cross the threshold into motherhood without a community to hold me. It was overwhelming, defeating and disorienting. Like so many new mothers, I turned to my phone, the internet, and social media, hoping…
Read MoreAnte Up || By Laura Zwisler, LPC
I suspect life is run like a casino game. Casino games require that you place a bet or “ante up” before you get a chance to play. Playing is not winning. Playing is an opportunity to win. It’s also an opportunity to lose. Should you lose, you paid to lose. Should you win, you paid for the chance to win. Want…
Read MoreLet’s Chat Gender || By Bre Smith, Affordable Counseling Intern
I love to talk about gender! There is so much nuance, play, fun, and violence, oppression, harm surrounding gender. This topic is dynamic, complex, important, fluid, and sacred. What is gender? Gender is only one piece of the identity pie. This short essay is too brief to cover the many layers of identity such as…
Read MoreThe Self of the Therapist: Showing Up as We Are || By Annabelle Denmark
In the therapy room, we often talk about authenticity—encouraging clients to show up as their full selves. But what about us, the therapists? What does it mean to bring our whole selves into work? For me, the answer lies in the intersection of grit, roots, and a refusal to pretend I’m someone I’m not. I…
Read MoreTime Alone Isn’t Enough: Why Healing Requires More Than Quiet Reflection || By Lora Cheadle JD, CHt
There’s something sacred about solitude. After any emotional upheaval—especially something as earth-shattering as betrayal—it’s natural to retreat. Time alone can offer a welcome pause from the chaos. It allows us to breathe, reflect, and reconnect with ourselves in small, quiet ways. But here’s the truth: time alone doesn’t heal all wounds. Betrayal trauma isn’t just…
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