How to Forgive || By Laura Zwisler, LPC

I once saw one of those customizable signs outside of a church that said, “Forgive someone today.” If only forgiveness worked like that. If it were simply an act we chose, we would get over things so much easier and more completely. Most people don’t want to hold grudges, they simply don’t know how to find closure.…

Read More

 Anywhere But Here II By Phannie Krentzman

We are living in a strange period of time. The other day I was out at a local pizza shop with my husband and two year old daughter. My husband and I  have been very intentional about not being on our phones or doing any screens with her young, malleable, brain. Being a developmental movement…

Read More

Trauma-Informed Relationships: How to improve your relationships one step at a time || By Annabelle Denmark, MA, LPC

Trauma is often an attachment wound. Something bad happened, and there was no safe, consistent person to help make sense of it or repair it with you. Healing, then, has to happen in relationships too — not through insight alone, but through lived experience that proves something different is possible. Trauma-informed relationships are relationships —…

Read More

Summer Grief || By Laura Zwisler, LPC

Someone gave us the idea that summer is always light and fun, full of hope. I’m pretty sure it was Shakespeare. He constantly paints winter as miserable and summer as glorious. Wherever we got the idea, we all wait for summer to come, thinking that this will be the season where we don’t catch colds, get to…

Read More

There Is Nothing Wrong With You || By Phannie Krentzman

We all think something is wrong with us. It is the human condition. Our self-perception sits upon an assumption that fundamentally, we are broken. That something is missing.  A gazelle doesn’t spend its life seeking its place in the world. It simply lives in accordance with the rules of nature and its subjective role –…

Read More

Would You Rather || By Laura Zwisler, LPC

I was watching a movie with my kids one time, and a character posed this question: Would you rather drink only plain water for the rest of your life, or anything you liked, but it would have one drop of pee in it? As you can imagine there were some follow up questions: Can you see…

Read More