Archive for February 2026
Perfection: Creativity’s Kryptonite || By Phannie Krentzman
What is perfection? “The condition, state or quality of being free or free as possible from all flaws or defects.” This definition, from Webster, requires an agreement of what that condition of perfection means. Where does that idea come from? How do we construct the ideal perfection, why do we need perfection and what does…
Read MoreWhen Emotions Take Over: Working with Parts Instead of Fighting Them || By Annabelle Denmark, LPC
Life brings uncertainty, loss, and relational pain. When it does, our nervous systems react. Tension rises. Big feelings surface—fear, anger, loneliness, rejection. If those feelings build without support, they can push us toward extreme coping strategies: addiction, self-harm, suicidal thoughts. For people who have experienced ongoing or repeated trauma, these emotional states can begin to…
Read MoreThe Worst Has Happened, Now What? || By JT Nolan, LPC
The Stages of Change Model of Grief There’s a scene in “The Two Towers” (the second “Lord of the Rings” movie) where King Théoden receives the news that his son is dead. After Gandalf reassures him that his death was not his fault, Théoden replies, “No parent should have to bury their child.” I remember…
Read MoreWhat Your Dreams Are Trying to Tell You—and How Therapy Can Help || By Deanna Edwards, LPCC
Have you ever woken up from a dream that stayed with you all day? Dreams are more than random images—they’re windows into our subconscious, reflecting our emotions, fears, and desires in ways our waking mind often misses. Take this dream, for example: The hotel keeps rearranging itself. Hallways stretch and fold, doors breathe softly, lights…
Read MoreStaying Present in Sexual Experiences: A Nervous System–Informed Perspective || By TJ Dubovich, MA, MFTC
Many people come to therapy wondering why it feels so difficult to stay present during sexual experiences—whether alone or with partner(s). They may describe distraction, self-criticism, numbness, anxiety, or a sense of going through the motions rather than truly inhabiting their bodies. These experiences are far more common than most people realize. They are not…
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