Posts Tagged ‘grief’
Summer Grief || By Laura Zwisler, LPC
Someone gave us the idea that summer is always light and fun, full of hope. I’m pretty sure it was Shakespeare. He constantly paints winter as miserable and summer as glorious. Wherever we got the idea, we all wait for summer to come, thinking that this will be the season where we don’t catch colds, get to…
Read MoreWhere Do We Go From Here?: Moving Through Grief to Cultivate our Aliveness || By Taylor Arroganté-Reyes, LPCC
When I sat down to write this, I knew I wanted to talk about the psychological work that’s swirling around me as a therapist. More specifically, the work around me as a therapist in 2026 in the United States who works with folks at an intersection of many forms of marginalization. My fingers hovered over…
Read MoreIs Forgiveness the Key to Healing? Here’s What You Need to Know II By Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt
If you’ve ever felt your world crumble—because of a broken promise, a fractured relationship, a deep disappointment, or a violation of trust—you are not alone. Life hands us heartbreak in many forms. And while the world often says “just forgive and move on,” let’s be honest: healing doesn’t happen on demand. So… is forgiveness really…
Read MoreAn Exploration into the Experience of Pet Loss and Pet Grief || By Kevin Culver LPCC
When we think of grief and loss, we often associate it with the loss of a person; but grief can also manifest in other forms, specifically after the loss of a pet. It is unfortunate, however, that in our society we give little credence to the impact and weight that can accompany the death of…
Read MoreHow to Accompany Ourselves and Others in Grief || By Catherine Dockery, MA, Conscious Aging Facilitator
Feeling grief was impossible for me most of my life. I grew up in the middle of a very large family, My mom had absolutely no capacity to hold her own grief nor to recognize or welcome mine. I learned really quickly to be strong, to be independent and not too needy. In order to…
Read MoreAn American Experience of Death and Grief || By Lisa Martinez MA, ERYT 200-RYT 500
I have written posts in this series on various cultural approaches to death: Japanese rituals, Mexican/Meso-American rituals, Celtic rituals, Nigerian rituals, and Samoan/Pacific Islander rituals. I’m sure I could fill years with different posts covering rituals from thousands of other major cultures. Across the 195 recognized countries in the world, ethnologists and anthropologists have estimated…
Read MoreThe day you mourn and weep for another’s death … the Igbo community rituals of mourning || By Lisa Martinez, Affordable Counseling Intern for People House, ERYT 200-RYT 500
Continuing my exploration of various cultural mourning and grief rituals, for this post I’m featuring the story of my dear friend Maria who is from the Igbo ethnic group in Nigeria. The Igbo people form one of the largest people groups in Nigeria originating from Igboland, an area located in an eastern and western section…
Read MoreSex & Death || By Rick Garcia, Certified Sex/Cannabis Coach, LMT
I often write blogs about things that clients ask about, but this time I wanted to go with something a little more personal. This blog will be exactly what the title suggests, so please consider this to be your trigger warning and rightly so. I find it curious that the most natural aspects of life…
Read MoreThe Ancient Beauty of the Ofrenda: a grief ritual of the Día de Los Muertos || By Lisa Martinez, Affordable Counseling Intern for People House, ERYT 200-RYT 500
Continuing with my series about cultural death rituals, this month we explore the ritual about building an ofrenda on Día de Los Muertos, the Day of the Dead, on November 1st and 2nd. Although it is not that time of year, this is a wonderful time for me to remember because it is near my…
Read MoreMono No Aware: The Empathy of Things || By Lisa Martinez, Affordable Counseling Intern for People House, ERYT 200-RYT 500
‘To know mono no aware is to discern the power and essence, not just of the moon and the cherry blossoms, but of every single thing existing in this world, and to be stirred by each of them’. — Motoori Norinaga One of my favorite metaphors for the beauty but brevity of life is the…
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